So I was reading an article the other day and apparently these are the reasons she's not really texting you back! I've added in my two cents as well!
1. They are bombarded with similar messages.
Imagine signing into Facebook only to find a handful of unread messages from numerous guys, all of whom are interested in “catching up for a coffee” or “wanting to hang out.”
Guys shoot themselves in the foot by being unmemorable and asking for what everyone else is offering. We need to offer something different to be attention grabbing, so rather than saying something along the lines of “let’s catch up,” learn about the woman’s interests and suggest to do something to reflect them.
2. Once women know they can have you, you’re fighting an uphill battle.
If she knows she can have you, you automatically become a backburner prospect — you’re just not that exciting to her.
So, never provide her with too much information and don’t be afraid to leave things up in the air. Don’t confuse this with coming across as indecisive — indifference can be enticing and it’ll make her more likely to engage with you.
3. You’re not mysterious enough.
Many women find a little mystery to be sexy. If you are constantly messaging with a female, some of the intrigue is lost (probably for both parties). Have something up your sleeve because after a while, small talk doesn’t cut it.
So if you have been messaging some chick for awhile and find yourself asking the same questions (or not progressing), take some time out. Maybe this will turn the tables and she’ll be the one chasing you.
4. You might not actually be interested in this girl and it shows.
Usually, guys will just talk to any girl so that they can feel that they are “killing it with the ladies” (so to speak). If you are not genuinely interested in a girl, put it to rest before the conversation self-destructs.
I'll add in that if you don't make your intentions clear she might not message you back because she's unsure of why you're hitting her up!
Also if we think you're a player we might not even want to get involved at all.
If you take forever to get back to us...we'll take forever to get back to you!!